Why does my boyfriend turn down sex?
WHY DOES MY BOYFRIEND TURN DOWN SEX?? My boyfriend is definitely straight, and I HIGHLY doubt he's cheating on me (do you think this would be a reason I'm blind to?). I'm also in shape and cute - I even do promotional modeling... however, he turns me for sex fairly frequently. I don't get it... am I too available to have it? I'm always in the mood and he's not. He claims he's tired... what should I do? Turn him down and give him a taste of his own medicine? Is he not into me? I mean, he does everything else a good boyfriend should do... ahhhh helpp!! I feel like this is the opposite problem any girl should have and NOT one I've ever experienced with any other boyfriend before... I swear not a crazy sex addict... I'm talking I want to have sex every few days.
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Thank you - this helps a lot. My boyfriend occasionally smokes pot (to my dismay) and is in the process of quitting smoking cigs... do you think that could be a part of this? I definitely need to talk to him because you are right - it is affecting both of us. It makes me beat myself if I haven't worked out all week, or ate a little more than I usually would. I could drive myself crazy with 'can he tell my tummy isn't as flat? ' haha so silly I know.
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**beat myself up - typo! And figuratively - not literally!