Do I have to worry that my boyfriend watches a lot of porn?
I know this is a frequently asked question, but I need some great advice... especially from you average men out there!
I have been with my boyfriend for close to 7 years now. For two of the most recent years, we were doing the long distance thing, which was difficult but we survived with no issues. I do know that he watched a LOT of porn when I wasn't there, which I'm OK with because I'm happy he was finding release with porn and not with another woman.
We now have moved in together. Sex with him in the first week was amazing, but now he seems to be a little distracted. I found out that he secretly watches porn again after I go to sleep, even if it's just a couple hours after we had sex.
He even has a favorite that he prefers, and it makes me uncomfortable knowing this because I'm Asian, and his fav porn star is white. The fact that she looks nothing like me scares me. I am very willing to try and do anything in the bedroom, which he knows. I'm now insecure about my sexuality with my boyfriend.
I think I'm attractive because many men tell me this when I go out... but does my boyfriend still think this? Is he getting bored of me after 7 years? I know he will never stop this habit of watching porn, but I just want to know: Is this a problem, and should I be worried?
How can I get a spark back in our sex life so that he lusts after me like he used to?