My recent BreakUp but its different from others? So confused!
A note before, I am 17 and this is more of a high school love relationship kind of deal, but felt like so much more.
So here I am, I tried doing it on my own, but now I need some advice so here is my story.
I was going out with this girl for close to 1 and a half years, things were smooth for the most part with little things here and there. It all started in June when rumors went around about how she cheated on me... (which was 4 months ago at the time) I already knew about this incident (at the time 4 months ago) and came to the conclusion that she didn't cheat. I also came to the conclusion on who started the rumors and it may have been caused by jealousy from another party kind of deal. So anyway things were rocky for a couple weeks then there was a major death in the family and things just dropped from there and that was it I thought. Within the next day I got a call from her and we talked and things grew smooth and we kind of got back together. Then the next week she for some reason just had enough. Meanwhile she asked for space back in June and I gave her as much as she needed (but nothings good enough right?) So I tried reasoning with her and kind of explaining why she's feeling this way and she took some time and eventually agreed. This went on an off for a while until finally I had enough emotionally and I called her and we both mutually ended it. After that I got a new job and constantly worked as much as I could to keep my mind off things.
I can call myself a religious person and I asked God to show me I didn't need her one day. And the next day I noticed a girl and she noticed me and we started talking a little bit, the next couple of days I got her number. But then I met up with my ex to get back and give back stuff. I will leave out a major detail that I can work around for respect purposes on her part (nothing to do with us or anything). But we started talking and out of nowhere a spark just lit and I fell in love with her again after trying so hard to forget her for that entire month. I stopped talking to the new girl I met cause I couldn't stop thinking about my ex.
To cut this story short, it seems like every week I would almolst get over her and then she would call or something and it would come back a little, most of the time I would shrug the feeling off.
But now its worse, I talked to her for a long time, I drove her to some places when she needed a ride (this is all within the last 2 weeks). And one time she said how I looked hot in my new car, and later on in the ride when she was leaving she said she still misses me. I swear it feels like I am falling in love again, but when I seem to even hint at the fact of us being together she seems to run away. Maybe she just needs more time? This is so hard emotionally its like she's playing with my heart. Today was the worse, I dropped her off at home and she hesitated to get out of the car (I notice a lot of things/body language) And I asked her why she hesitated she said I don't know and stalled by saying something else, then somehow she said why do you want a kiss goodbye? And all I could say on the spot was no talk to you later. I miss her so much now and some nights I will have a dream about being with her again and its driving me insane! Should I bite the bullet and let go or do you think it could be something more?
HELP this is nuts!
CHUFF!!