Originally Posted by
Gemini54
I'm not sure why Jesus should be involved in this, but for me it's perfectly acceptable to hug an ex-spouse.
If they are your ex, then they are technically another human being, and why wouldn't you want to show them comfort and love?
I see my ex regularly and have no problems hugging him. We cared about each other when we were married, why would we not continue to care about each other now just as any good friends would?
The hugging signifies a shared past, shared memories and the capacity as an adult and a mature human being to move on, without rancour but with love and friendship.
You should feel blessed that you have this opportunity to relate to your respective ex's in this way. As you well know, many people have destructive and difficult relationships with their ex's.