OK so I've been suddenly having erection and ejacualtion trouble. I'm only 17, about to turn 18 and I just got a new girlfriend and we're already having sex, too quick, I know... but the point is we haven't done it in either of our houses yet because of parents, so we do it in the back of my car. And I can't get a full erection even when we're having sex and I can't ejaculate. Its twice this is happened.

I don't know what's going on. I've had this once before but it was only for erection trouble. When that happened, it was the first time I had sex in a year, so I guess I was nervous, but the second time, I was fine

But I'm worried about this one. Maybe it's the condoms I use, if they get too dry, maybe its because we're in the back seat and its cramped and not that comfortable and I can't focus or something, or maybe its just because its with a new girl? I don't know, but its getting me really discouraged

Can someone help me?

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Originally Posted by fenderstrummer28

but im worried about this one. maybe its the condoms i use, if they get too dry, maybe its because we're in the back seat and its cramped and not that comfortable and i can't focus or something, or maybe its just because its with a new girl?

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Well I think that you've pretty much answered your own question. I wouldn't really worry about it unless it keeps happening. I don't really think the condoms have anything to do with it, but being with someone new is often scary and exciting at the same time. And in my opinion things like this happens to all guys, at one point or another.

Mainly, I think your problem is nervousness, which in turn, causes you not to be able to get an erection due to the nerves in your body. Once you feel comfortable with your partner, you will be fine. Condoms have nothing to do with the reason you can not get an erection. You don't have to worry about ED(Erectile Dysfunction) either, because it is caused due to being nervous, as I said, with your new partner. Also, the discomfort of being in a vehicle, outside none-the-less, can cause stress to your body and make you not become erect as easily, even if you are in the mood to have sex. Hope this helps.