Why do everyone including all guys think tall women like 5'10 are the most beautifull?
Why do everyone including all guys think tall women like 5'10 are the most beautifull?
Who on earth are you hanging out with?? Once a guy grows up, he doesn't think that way.
I am 5'2... I have never, that I know of, been overlooked because of it.
I think you, or maybe people in your age group, have put too much importance on what you see in mags and on the TV/movies. Its what's on the inside that counts, the outside tells you little to nothing as to who you really are.
Most models have unhealthy eating habits and some have other even more harmful addictions. Photos are changed and enhanced before they ever get into a mag. Or add.
As you get older you will find that having confidence and personality count for much more than outward appearance.
Not all guys think that tall women are the most beautiful. Also as rockie said photos are enhanced to make models look perfect. Plus they wear tons of makeup.
Sorry you are believing from this post and others a bunch of lies about what guys like.
Obviously you are still in JR high or "maybe" high school where it is not real life yet.
If you live in the US, I have what I call walmart counseling, go sit by the door of any walmart for 15 min, you will see people that look so much worst or shorter or fatter and many will have a partner they are with.
Some people like shorter people, some people like fatter people, some like red hair, others blonde.
I am in college. I have been overlooked all my life due to a lack of height. I remember one girl that I went to high school with. She was 5 foot ten and skinny and guys flocked around her. I was much shorter with a Maryln Monroe shape and I was completely ignored.
Have people said to you "i don't like you because you are short?" I'm sure they haven't. People also don't say "i like that girl because she is tall and skinny." you shouldn't assume that people aren't attracted to you because of your height or because you are dark (as you said in your other post). As I said before people look for other things too besides looks.
I'd also like to point out that if you don't keep up with your appearance then guys won't like you. I'm not saying try to look like Barbie but:
-comb your hair
-keep up with your hygiene
-wash your face
-put some makeup on [or less makeup if you cake it on]
-shave
-wax that upper lip [hey I admit it I do it].
You can say "oh guys don't just look at what you look like" but that's kind of untrue. You DO have to be physcially attracted to the person.
You know what would be the cherry on top of the list above?
CONFIDENCE.
If a guys sees you with your low self esteem and self hating, they do not want to mess with that.
So love yourself, take care of yourself :D
That girl that had the guys flocking, had more to her than her height...
Stop thinking about outward apearance, and start to cultivate who you are inside. People (guys) will gravitate toward a girl that feels good in there own skin. Insecurity is not attractive.
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