What Should I Do About My Ex in High School?
So me and this girl started talking a lot after we met when we and some other friends went to a movie. At the time, she was dating another guy, and I assumed nothing was really going to happen. A week later she told me that she liked me, but she still liked her boyfriend more. After about two months of having a half relationship, she broke up with him and went out with me-the guy also liked someone else and was fine with it. We started dating and for about 2 months, everything was great-she loved me, and I loved her. We would talk all the time and would do a lot together, and just hang out sometimes. However, eventually she began to become more and more distant, eventually not really talking to me at school at all, and just having a generally negative and superior attitude towards me. As this was my first relationship, I still loved her a lot and I felt really confused-she liked boys who were arrogant and the "dark boy" style, but we're gentle to her. I do know that I may have been too nice, verging on clingy-but I genuinely loved her. After another two months from the beginning of the decline, she broke it off-with the reason of that she "was sick of liking me as much as I liked her". After two days of being super depressed and sad, she contacted me on Facebook-however, she just told me off for making other people think she was cruel by crying. However, she then started asking me questions of whether I thought she was worth it to try and get her back, and then logged offline. 2 months later, she is still like this-at school and with her friends and online, she is smart-mouthed, mean, discerning and despising towards me-however she has moments which appear to be genuine care. I don't trust her though-she has the capacity to just mess with people. I still like her a lot and I don't know what to do-mainly, I don't know what's going on with her. She is naturally flirty with anyone and so I get jealous easily-but sometimes she appears to still have feelings. This is getting in the way of my life and I just want to get her back (although in general telling her your feelings and love results negatively)-what do I do?