How Do I Fix My Relationship
Okay so me and my girlfriend have been dating for over a year now, and things have been good until now. First let me lay down the basics when we first met and all that. We both met online and set up a date and saw each other, and we both really liked each other. There was one thing she didn't like, she didn't like I had friends that were girls, so she didn't want me to hang out with them, but she wanted to hang out with her guy friends. So we made a deal and we both agreed not to hang out with them. So recently, she moved down where I live so we could be with each other. She lives in a dorm at a collage like 15-20 minutes away from me. About 3-4 days ago she just got here to move into her dorm, and she told me that she couldn't talk much while orientation was going on. So I understood, orientation is prety important, but something's have started to happen. I told her she could hang out with guy friends and she agreed to let me hang out with my friends. It sounded good to me, but the day after she came here she was telling me how much she loves me and how bad she wants to be with me etc. Which is the usual for us. A day after that something suddenly changed, she was saying she doesn't know if she wants to be in a relationship because she wants to get closer to god(she goes to a christian collage). So after a while of talking she agreed to be with me but she says she is going to put a lot of time into making friends here. I said that it was fine, but she needs to treat me like a boyfriend, and not put EVERYTHING in front of me and make an actual effort to see me. She agreed, but now today she is saying she needs space, she needs to think about things, etc. I don't know what I have done wrong, I mean just 2 days ago everything was normal, and now all this has happened. What should I do? I want to be with her, and I don't think that she would break up with me because I said if your going to leave then leave don't torcher me, and every time I say that she kind of goes around it avoiding a break up. So I think she wants to be with me, but I don't know what is going on, I asked if she found someone else, and she told me she doesn't do that kind of things. Oh and I almost forgot, a week ago she asked if I wanted to go with church with her, I said yes because we are both religious, but now she said she wants to be alone when she goes because she needs time with god. So I don't know if that has something to do with it or not, but again what should I do? How would I fix things? If I were to say I wanted to think about things a week ago she would have gone crazy mad at me saying I don't love her blah blah. So I don't know what to do.