I am SO confused..
I started talking to this guy mid June.. We met online (I know, online) but hit it off I thought, well. We talked on the phone a few times and it went on well over an hour. He was non-stop texting me for weeks.. Acted super interested in me and we had great conversations leading from serious to flirty and fun. We had a ton of things in common and it seemed like we never got tired of each others conversation. We would talk until 2am majority of the time! He followed everything I did on Facebook... everything.
We both got out of long-term relationships around the same time. He spoke freely about his ex and everything involved whereas I tried to avoid talking about mine, but he prodded. My friends said he was probably wanting to know what he was up against?
We finally met up and had a great night out! He was respectful and fun. He called me to make sure I made it home OK and the next morning he was super talkative. He even invited me to a concert, which I couldn't go to because of work and last minute invite. I had to go out of town for a meeting and it seemed at that point everything stopped. He became super distant and hard to keep a conversation going. I asked if I was bothering him, he assure me that everything was fine and that he was just busy. I tried to be flirty with him and he just kind of shut me down. I was going to be in his area, so I asked if he wanted to meet up. He seemed excited about it and even was going to make plans to do something. The night before he said nothing. All day he said nothing. I text him first and he explained that he was having car problems.. that it happened the night before. And that it'd be 2-3 hours before he would be able to do anything.. I offered to head his direction, he said no.. But he'd text me later to see what I'm up to.
I kind of snapped... I wasn't upset over the fact we couldn't have met up, I was upset that he didn't have the courtesy of letting me know that we might not be able to. He basically ignored me and blew me off. I asked if he had any intentions of meeting up with me.. he claims he did.. but the actions he chose told me no. I would've thought he'd have said *something*. And then I called him a jerk lol He proceeded to tell me that I try to hard and that he wasn't looking for a relationship. I understand that... I'm not entirely sure if I want a relationship right now either.. but I doubt he'd have done that to any of his friends. I know I wouldn't have.. or even to someone I wasn't too interested in meeting up with.
The sad thing is.. I kind of miss this guy. Not sure if I should attempt to make amends or let it go. I'm giving myself a week or two and if I feel the same way, I might try to contact him again. We're still friends on Facebook, but I know guys and Facebook doesn't mean too much. I really liked him though. I also think he freaked when he realized I'm a live person behind the text messages and phone calls. He came at me hard and then backed away just as fast.
Love is truly a battlefield... Any insight would be greatly appreciated :)