Okay, my husband and I are not the handiest people in the world. We needed to replace a tub spout with diverter, as water was not coming out of the shower head. We bought a universal tub spout with diverter, the kind with a thread screw and retainer ring. We followed the directions to a T, and when we turn the shower on, we get water coming out of the shower head, but also from behind the tub spout. Can anyone tell me what we're doing wrong?