Why are guys so damn confusing?
A co-worker of mine and I have been recently spending a great deal of time together. We usually make plans with each other one all of our days off together etc. When we're together it's an absolute blast. We talk about anything and everything from work to personal things that we confide in each other. He's told me that he enjoys spending time with me because there is no drama and it's just a lot of fun. He also said he's spent more time with me lately than his group of friends that he grew up with. When we go out he tends to want to pay for dinner etc. Although this all seems wonderful a few weeks back at work we were both joking around about how everyone thinks we make such a cute couple and I jokingly told him well we should go out then and he said no. I'm extremely confused because he calls me and makes plans with me all the time and we're even planning a trip to Thailand for next year for just the two of us yet he has never asked me out or anything like that. We have never even hugged etc yet he's always touching me at work when we talk i.e.. Arms, hands, back. When I first started hanging out with him I had a boyfriend of five years but we've since then separated and I'm now single. Can someone please explain this to me because I'm at a total loss.