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  • Aug 28, 2007, 07:38 PM
    AandZ4ever
    Crushes all leaving me!

    Hey fellow advice givers, yep its me once again sorry I haven't been back in a while but school started and I have been busy hope you understand:o anywhoo this one is about all of my crushes either leaving or not seeing them. My crush (who I referred to as swish in a few questions I asked) moved to another school AN ALL BOY SCHOOL! God and I heard he likes this slut sara literally if you saw her... only one word comes to mind. But anyway then my other crush jake I never see anymore because he's not in any of the same classes and hallways. My other kind of crush alex who is next to my locker and smells like a dream is going to the new school. What am I going to do?? I don't have any of them anymore. Honestly if zac efron never looks my way I honestly think I won't ever do that. I am not a flirt, and just not girlfriend material I don't know I don't need a boyfriend but I just wish something good would happen to me but most likely even if the guy I liked asked me out I would still say no is that wrong?? Ahhh no crushes, but friends, in fact I don't even have like one good guy friend. God I don't even talk to boys outside of class. I guess I am what they call a prude everybody makes it such a big deal with boys but honestly don't see the point in them now, dances, or ever. (zac not towards u ;) ) haha well help! What shall I do?
  • Aug 28, 2007, 08:51 PM
    AandZ4ever
    Please one person would help!
  • Aug 28, 2007, 08:53 PM
    GlindaofOz
    Maybe you should stop making fun of people and saying hateful things about people different from you. Maybe your crushes see that in you. The things you say about fat people are disgusting.
  • Aug 28, 2007, 08:55 PM
    AandZ4ever
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by GlindaofOz
    maybe you should stop making fun of people and saying hateful things about people different from you. Maybe your crushes see that in you. The things you say about fat people are disgusting.
    Fat people? Child what are you talking about lol? For real your disgusting? For even saying that who are u? Lol and my crushes don't even know me hhahaahhaa goodness I needed help not sarcasm that's not very considerate or nice. Thanks but please don't respond to my questions anymore with that attitude. I am only 15 goodness
  • Aug 28, 2007, 08:57 PM
    rankrank55
    You answered your own question hun, "everybody makes it such a big deal with boys but honestly dont see the point in them now." Find yourself and stop dwelling on guys that aren't dwelling on you. Make your friendships stronger, do some extracurricular activities, love yourself, and get the latest Rolling Stone with ole Zac on it... that's all you need. You don't need these little guys buzzing around in your brain all day. Worry about yourself, friends and school. Your normal, calm down.
  • Aug 28, 2007, 08:57 PM
    GlindaofOz
    At 15 you are still responsible for the things that you say. Did you not send me a message saying Sorry no one would EVER date a fat person doesn't happen. I think you did. I imagine in your day to day life that comes out.

    Being a good person starts with the way you talk about people and treat people.
  • Aug 28, 2007, 09:00 PM
    rankrank55
    I have to side with Glinda on this one; you can't expect to make it through high school with that kind of attitude.
  • Aug 28, 2007, 09:00 PM
    AandZ4ever
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by rankrank55
    You answered your own question hun, "everybody makes it such a big deal with boys but honestly dont see the point in them now." Find yourself and stop dwelling on guys that aren't dwelling on you. Make your friendships stronger, do some extracurricular activities, love yourself, and get the latest Rolling Stone with ole Zac on it...that's all you need. You don't need these little guys buzzing around in your brain all day. Worry about yourself, friends and school. Your normal, calm down.
    thanks girl lol the other response was so random? Lol but I can tell u no extra ciricular activities here I hate trying out for things and running. Lol but thanks all I need is zac your right!
  • Aug 28, 2007, 09:01 PM
    AandZ4ever
    OK I didn't say EVER I said most and what about you saying you hate short people AND WOULD NEVER DATE ONE your a hypacrit sorry just saying.
  • Aug 28, 2007, 09:02 PM
    AandZ4ever
    I have big friends goodness I am not hatefull towards them so I don't understand you I just stated an opinion that said most people. It's the same as you and short people
  • Aug 28, 2007, 09:04 PM
    rankrank55
    What about drama, cheerleading, student council, other clubs...
  • Aug 28, 2007, 09:18 PM
    AandZ4ever
    Lol I am not a good cheerleader you have to try out lol and I really don't like most of those girls lol some yes but others you get the feeling. Lol but they have to run like a mile every practice lol it wouldn't be good I am fit but I can't run literally like jogg across the street haha lol just kiddin
  • Aug 28, 2007, 09:23 PM
    kt1205
    I've never been friends with a guy. I have my boyfriend and he's it. My whole life, never talked to them. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. Someone will come along and when they do you'll realize it was worth the wait and you won't care about all of those who moved away or you don't see anymore. Good things sometimes take a lot of time but they do happen.
  • Aug 28, 2007, 09:25 PM
    AandZ4ever
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by kt1205
    ive never been friends with a guy. i have my bf and he's it. my whole life, never talked to them. i wouldnt worry about it if i were you. someone will come along and when they do you'll realize it was worth the wait and you wont care about all of those who moved away or you dont see anymore. good things sometimes take alot of time but they do happen.
    God I hope so girl thank you for your responses kt. Lol nickname but honestly this might sound bad but I want a celebrity ( I know I'm crazy) I just would love that life. I don't think I'm ever going to date in high school or colledge. Lol but that's OK it doesn't matter I guess.
  • Aug 28, 2007, 09:30 PM
    kt1205
    Well I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and he's wanted to leave a lot of times and even if I almost gave up or wanted to give up I wouldn't let myself and were still together. So I can say one thing "if you dont give up, you have alot better chance of getting what u want"
  • Aug 28, 2007, 09:31 PM
    kt1205
    How old are you by the way? I'm 16
  • Aug 28, 2007, 10:05 PM
    AandZ4ever
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by kt1205
    how old are you by the way? i'm 16
    Lol I am 15 close!
  • Aug 29, 2007, 05:40 PM
    alishawadi
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by GlindaofOz
    At 15 you are still responsible for the things that you say. Did you not send me a message saying Sorry no one would EVER date a fat person doesn't happen. I think you did. I imagine in your day to day life that comes out.

    Being a good person starts with the way you talk about people and treat people.
    YOU GO GIRL!
  • Aug 29, 2007, 09:19 PM
    AandZ4ever
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by alishawadi
    YOU GO GIRL!!
    First of all I am sorry but glinda? Is it? I never said that about bigger people I was talking about preferences with you and the girl who commented this maybe you would like to ask GLENDA who really said that and who also said SHE HATES SHORT Guys. Um hypicrit much?? / honestly glinda? Glenda? U go girl? What are we 4 ? My goodness well thanks bye
  • Sep 2, 2007, 09:04 AM
    nteele
    Why do I always hear songs that say about my emotion?

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