I recently got intouch with my boyfriend after 3years and he asked if I'm single and I asked him too. Were both still single and he said he still feels for me and loves me I told him the same, as I love him too. But then when he asked me to meet him I said no because I'm not sure what his motive is, then he said he doesn't want a relation ship but he loves me. When I asked if he has a girlfriend he replied 'yes and that's u'.

I don't know what to do, I still feel for him... I thought id try to find out if he really likes me or whether he's just lying... so I told him I'm with someone and I've moved on, since then he got very jealous and kept persuading me. I didn't listen to him and now he hasn't come online for 3 days. I think I've really hurt him... but I'm not sure what he wants. And I don't know whether I should contact him or should I not bother... but I am concerned.

Please help me, thanks

Don't care about what he eagerly or sincerely say to to, but care about what he does for you. Love has action. Love is not on internet and in letters.

If he was so in love with you and you with him, why the 3 year break?
He does not want a relationship but he loves you? Please!
He thought he would try out some old stuff, get in your pants.
Take this as a good thing. You did not need to go back there.

As you said you do not know his motive,so do what you do as usual,do not pay special attention to him! If he really wants you,you will know!

Whatever happened to just asking a person what they mean by something?
But since he is no longer talking to you, my guess is he has decided to leave you alone for another 3 years. Why did you two break up in the first place?

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For every action, there is a complete, and opposite reaction. You open up this can of worms, got your answer, and now must close the can again. What did you expect after 3 years. He thought you were offering yourself to him, and now your confused? He seemed pretty clear to me. Leave him alone, and that will end the confusion.