I am 27 years old and I need to know how to let my mother know that she is ruining me, emotionally and every other way possible. She has hated me most of my life, she flat out said it a couple years ago and told me the next time I tried to take my own life to do it right. Now that I have finally got a decent life a good husband and wonderful children she still hates me. She does things and says things to be cruel for no apparent reason and she does not only do it to me she does it to all of her daughters, I just happened to get the worst of it and take it to heart worse than the others. I need her to know that she is killing me and that she is making me literally sick, but some how I cannot do it and neither can my sisters. What can we do she is going to emotionally kill all four of us.