Well, Where do I start well it was December 2006 me and my friend went to a party at the club down the road :) , and we saw some friends (boys) we hadn't seen in awhile and they had some new friends they brought to the party, and I got talking to one of them called shaun he sounded so sweet and caring ater the party was over we kissed and stayed in touch we got together and we got together stayed together for 8 mounths and he cheated a few times which didn't matter to me because I was with the one I loved and he promised he wouldn't do it again and he didn't.. everybody said are children would be stunning and he was the most fittest guy ever everygurl liked him, but then I kept on hearing he had asked his EX out a few times but then she would say he did then she would say he didn't :confused: I didn't know wha to believe so I left it and I left him, which was the biggest mistake off my life ever, and I started building up a relationship up with his best friend which turned into me and his best friend glynn being together :( and now its been 1year and 6months and I really can't stop thinking about my EX shaun, I had slept with him lastweek when glynn was away on hoilday and he keeps telling me he can't stop thinking off meh and he's nearly committed suiced :( and I don't know what to do I love him so much I don't know how to tell him either I did try before my Relationship with glynn got stronger and now glynns asked me to be engaged to him and I said yes but then I said no because off shaun but had to tell glynn that I wasn't ready.. I need help please help me wit some advice thank you :) x

You need to leave them both alone.
Shaun has had sex with you and you are dating his best friend? I assume Shaun is also dating someone else, which means he is still cheating, and now you're cheating on Glynn with his best friend.
You need to just chill with both of them. You don't deserve Glynn unless he's a cheater too and maybe since both you and Shaun are cheaters you two deserve each other.
I hope that will all the bed hopping and cheating going on, you guys are practicing safe sex.

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Originally Posted by firstloveshattered101

Well, Where do i start well it wuz december 2006 me and my friend went to a party at the club down the road :) , and we saw some friends (boys) we hadnt seen in awhile and they had some new friends they brought to the party, and i got talkin to one of them called shaun he sounded so sweet and caring ater the party was over we kissed and stayed in touch we got together and we got together stayed together for 8 mounths and he cheated a few times which didnt matter to me because i was with the one i loved and he promised he wouldnt do it again and he didnt .. everybody said are children would be stunning and he was the most fittest guy ever everygurl liked him, but then i kept on hearing he had asked his EX out a few times but then she would say he did then she would say he didnt :confused: i didnt know wha to believe so i left it and i left him, which was the biggest mistake off my life ever, and i started building up a relationship up with his bestfriend which turned into me and his bestfriend glynn being together :( and now its been 1year and 6months and i really can't stop thinking about my EX shaun, i had slept with him lastweek when glynn was away on hoilday and he keeps telling me he can't stop thinkin off meh and hes nearly comitted suiced :( and i dont know what to do i love him so much i dont know how to tell him either i did try before my Relationship with glynn got stronger and now glynns asked me to be engaged to him and i said yes but then i said no because off shaun but had to tell glynn that i wasnt ready .. i need help please help me wit some advice thank you :) x

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Yes, glynn has cheated once before and he's actually on hoilday with his mates so I wouldn't want 2 know what he's been doing, but before he went away I was out with my friend for a meal and he went to are friends party down the road and a few girls went and he new one of the girls from school and they got talking even more but my brother carl was there and told her to back off cause he has a girlfriend, but glynn told me if he drink even more he may have done something with this girl :|

Well you all are unfaithful to each other. How can you even think about getting engaed to someone you cannot be faithful to or you think your in love with somebody else who is also a no good cheater. And how can a man want to marry you and he can't even be faithful before the marriage?
You are confused. Stay away from both of them and stop having sex with people just because you have an itch. All three of you are just about as immature as you can be. You hop from bed to bed like you're shaking hands.
You need to take a holiday from men and get yourself together. Concentrate on doing something positive with your life.