Mother/Daughter/Grandchildren
I have this problem... my daughter keeps digging up the past and I am made to feel like I was the world's most horrible Mom. She doesn't like it when I have said "I don't know any mother/daughter who has the relationship like we have" and then she yells back that she doesn't care about others relationships. Mom and Dad decide WHEN and IF the granchildren are allowed to come to our house. YET, I have taken them to buy their school supplies, school clothes, have paid for lunches when Mom and Dad are short funds. Have done many things and this is how I get treated in return. My daughter will refuse to take me to like clinic appointments when I approach her. What can I do? I feel I am between a rock and a hard place.
I know of no one who could step in to help
Thanks for your reply but at this point I know of no one person who could do anything for us as far as our relationship. My daughter is just so bitter w/me and her one way of dealing is to not allow me to see the grans... they are oh so precious to me and it is just tearing me apart inside. I pray to God that he will somehow intervene between both of us and STOP this cruelty that is going on. I am afraid of my daughter because she has a wicked tongue when it comes to talking to me. Don't get me wrong, I love her very much bur what she is doing right now I just don't understand where she is coming from. I certainly appreciate all the responses to my posting. If nothing else, it is showing me that others can relate.