Hello all my name is tara I'm the mother of 2 kids my son goes to kindergarten while my daughter is about to be in middle school. Last time I found a condom in my daughters desk while cleaning her room. When she got back home I talked to her about it I asked if she is having sex with a boy but she denies everything she says she was carrying it for a friend of hers. By the way she is almost 13 her birthday is 8/17/94. I'm really worried about her last time a boy was knocking on my door he looks about 15-17 years old and he was asking where can he found my daughter I told him she was at a friend house.last time she sneaked out of the house and my hubby was mad. When she returned she was dressing as a (slut) she took my heels and used my makeup. I don't believe in hitting children I don't want to hit my daughter nor my son but as punishment I ground them. She is very rebellious towards me and my hubby and my little son. I need help I don't want to see my daughter killed and her body thrown in the middle of the street. Also is she having sex?