I know this veery late, but wow, I have to sympathize with you on this one. That must be so hard. I would definitely not see the monster-in-law if it were me. For her to treat you like that is unfair, rude, unreasonable, and just EVIL! And yeah, I think your little girl doesn't need to be there (or with her.) Also, your husband is on the wrong side! Ask him what it would feel like to be told those cruel things from the get-go. Honestly if he doesn't stand up for you, you do need to leave! Even if for a short while. Go to your parents, or even a mother and child shelter while you get a vocational degree. Seriously, everyone and anyone does not deserve to be put in that situation!