I can't seem to let him go. How can I get passed the heartbreak? He left me for another woman and I'm angry, jealous, and I'm devastated at the loss. I feel like something is wrong with me, not because he left me but because I'm acting stupid by confronting him and her. By showing up where they are looking like a million bucks to make him jealous, because that worked last time we broke up. I'm 51 years old I shouldn't be acting like a dumb teenager, but I can't seem to stop myself. He's not even that good of a man, barely ever worked, he got ADD which drove me crazy most of the time. What is it that I can't seem to put this behind me.