I have a 12yr old boy that is controlling, bossy and whiny at times. I geuss he is somewhat spoiled but he manages to do great in school and never gets into trouble. To me, he is just a typical boy. My mother goes places with my family, weekends away, vacations etc... but it never fails, she always gets involved with how I dicipline my son, trying to tell me what to do especially in front of him which makes him very angry. He then disrespects her to the point where he will tell her to shut up or quit talking about me! This last weekend away, she kept telling him he was crazy and he said, your fat! She blew up calling him a a--hole and bastard. When I stepped in she started calling me names as well, trying to belittle me by saying I have no friends, etc... I'm a f---ing B---h. I didn't argue back I only told her she needed help. She ended up packing up at 10pm and driving 2 1/2 hrs home. She is very insecure, obnoxious, interuptive in conversations and thinks people are out to get her. She seems to be intimidated around me. This is about the 4th time this has happened where she flys off with her mouth saying very hurtful things and cursing to him or myself. I've told her she desperately needs to see a therapist. My question is, should I continue talking to her? I just can't seem to forgive her this time. I haven't even received an apology, although she did apologize to my husband. It doesn't make sense.
Any input appreciated!