Originally Posted by Chris50
Forget the past, there is no future in it. Pick her up, dust her off and put her on a pedestal. God knows the other clowns she was with didn't, and her self esteem suffered. Step up and be her man...put yourself in her shoes...reverse the roles...how would you feel?? Be her rock...and understand...listen to what she says and don't judge her past mistakes. If you want to be closer, really listen to her and tell her you are sorry (for whatever) , hold her hand, rub her back, cook her dinner, take her to a movie SHE wants to see...do the little things...once you establish communication/friendship/respect again...it will be fine