Insecure husband and jealous
My husband and I have 4 kids, been married for almost 10 years. For the past year and a half he is so insecure and jealous. He accuses me of having an affair, saying I am "doing" someone else. He never initiates any sexual encounter what so ever. I work full time, I have 4 kids, and I go to school. I was a stay at home mom for 7 years and went back to work. He yells, cusses at me, and now that he has congestive heart failure, he drinks and smokes still and has this insecure personality. He asks me a million questions all the time. Last February we got into a fight. He went to his heart doctor appt. and on the way home he stopped at the VFW and got drunk with one of his friends. He came home and started fighting with me, and threw me against the wood on my couch. I couldn't get up, he hid the phone... the story is more emotional abuse than the physical abuse encounter. I am afraid that if I leave, he will just follow me. I want to get a divorce but I have no idea how to do this. I live in Ohio. Can anyone help?