Originally Posted by Nicolette
My husband tells me stories about when he was little and his mom would burn his fingers with matches when he was bad. Three months ago, we had our 15 month old baby boy over their and his older cousin (who is 6) was picking on the baby and yelling at him. My husband told the kid to knock it off. Well, my inlaws would not speak to us for 2 months and took the older kid's side. My mother in law just returned from a week's stay in a mental hospital where they diagnosed her with depression. While their she wrote a long letter to her kids saying how they make her life miserable and cost her too much money. My mother in law is verbally abusive to her family, she yells all the time and uses the "F" word numerous times during a conversation. I do not want my baby around her, I do not feel that he is safe with his grandmother. My husband does not understand this. He stays home with the baby while I work and he has left our little one with his mom a few times. Although I tell him how I feel, he says that his mom still has the right to see his grandchild and continues to leave him over there alone. I don't know what to do because I am not home during the day to make sure he isn't left with his grandmother, and I can't seem to get through to my husband that it is not a safe environment for our child. Please help....:(