Hubby's ex still keeps in touch
My husband and I have been newly married for six months now, and, we've been together for six years prior. I have since met his family and friends, one particular friend who happens to be an ex-girlfriend and close friend of his family. They have remained friends throughout the years, and she and I have since become friends as well. She herself is also newly married for two years now, however, she continues to keep in touch with my husband by constant phone calls and email. My husband is in the Army, and for the timebeing we live in separate states, and will be permanently joining him this summer. Since then she has asked me by email, to spend time with us before we move but also to spend a few hours alone with him since, as she phrased it, they have been friends for 11 years. I was furious at her request and have not responded to her email. In the meantime, she continues to call my husband on a regular basis. I have expressed to him my disapproval of her "need" to keep in touch with him, and he agrees and has since minimized his contact with her; but her calls to him continue, and I am deeply upset that she somehow believes it's okay to put their friendship in front of our marriage. It is very important to me to maintain good relations with his family and friends, but I am beginning to become very annoyed with her persistence. What should I do?