Sorry if this is lengthy. I've been married for 22 years and have 2 children, one 19 the other 16. Pretty much my entire marriage has been stressful and unhappy. First of all, we have always had money problems. We've been in bankruptcy two times. I make
$60K a year and my husband makes $50k. I have so many problems, I don't know where to begin. Our bankruptcy is over in 6 months. Right now we are having $1800 per month taken out of my husbands paycheck so money is pretty tight. The problem is my husband doesn't go to work. He works for the post office and can pretty much get away with not going to work - he provides doctors certs, applies for family medical leave, etc. All he does is drink beer and sleep and not go to work. We are behind in many of our bills. The house is in both our names. I have told him to leave numerous times, but he won't. What can I do?