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  • Jun 7, 2012, 09:24 PM
    avibantu
    Dear Ayesha Mahesh,

    Let me know if you like my suggestion. The world is changing and religious chains must not bind a pure virtue as love.
    Love is free bird. Even, Mahesh family mi8 nt comply with your marriage. Bt donn forget, ye tumhari duniya hai. Change is not always acceptable. Bt without change, the world won't move forward. Be the initiator. Marry Mahesh and prove to the world what love can do. Allah tala tum dono ko khush rakhe :-)
  • Jun 7, 2012, 09:27 PM
    avibantu
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ayeshamahesh View Post
    I am writing to you,because I am in a great dilemma or confusion.I am a muslim girl and I am in love with a Hindu Brahmin boy.I want to marry him.But my parents are objecting.They say its very sinful marrying a hindu boy.Allah will punish you and you will not be happy since you will face many problems at the society front.
    I care a damn about the society,I am just worried about my parents...I just want them to accept me.If I want to be confident enough(proofs),to convince them.My parents keep blackmailing me that,we have done so much for you,how can you even think of this thing....what about our respect in the society and all.My father says if you marry against our wish we will die....I am really in a very painful situation.

    I want you to help me in this.Please tell me is it sinful marrying a Hindu boy? He says I can continue with my worship...He is a very nice guy from heart...He is a very kind,honest and believes more in actions than just praying......He says you do hardwork and you get it....He also says that Islam is a peaceful religion...So please tell me can I marry him?Will Allah punish me if I marry him?If I can marry him,Please tell me how can I convince my parents? Please help me...

    Dear Ayesha Mahesh,

    Love is great, love is eternal. No doubt, there is the patti of religious faith on your parents' eyes. But, in the interior, they love their sweet daughter to the fullest else they won't have allowed your affair to carry this far even after knowing about your relation with a non-muslim. So, this is a positive side.
    Moreover, what they are afraid of is about society. Damn with the society, your parents are not against you. So, take a step. No need of eloping. Marry Mahesh,court marriage is a good option. Then, go to your parents and seek their blessings. If they love their daughter, they shall definitely accept your noble decision. After all, your is a case of love, not lust.
    But, its advisory, to have police protection lest your parents might commit something out of social liability. Don't let that happen, bcoz as per Indian Constitution, you have done nothing wrong. Have the backing of Police and act judiciously. Love was never faulty and will never be stained. Any step taken out of love will fetch to righteousness.
    Don't separate. Ye pyaar ki haar hogi. Get married
    May Allah bless you, Lord Shiva protect you both.
  • Jun 7, 2012, 09:28 PM
    avibantu
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ayeshamahesh View Post
    I am writing to you,because I am in a great dilemma or confusion.I am a muslim girl and I am in love with a Hindu Brahmin boy.I want to marry him.But my parents are objecting.They say its very sinful marrying a hindu boy.Allah will punish you and you will not be happy since you will face many problems at the society front.
    I care a damn about the society,I am just worried about my parents...I just want them to accept me.If I want to be confident enough(proofs),to convince them.My parents keep blackmailing me that,we have done so much for you,how can you even think of this thing....what about our respect in the society and all.My father says if you marry against our wish we will die....I am really in a very painful situation.

    I want you to help me in this.Please tell me is it sinful marrying a Hindu boy? He says I can continue with my worship...He is a very nice guy from heart...He is a very kind,honest and believes more in actions than just praying......He says you do hardwork and you get it....He also says that Islam is a peaceful religion...So please tell me can I marry him?Will Allah punish me if I marry him?If I can marry him,Please tell me how can I convince my parents? Please help me...

    Dear Ayesha Mahesh,

    Let me know if you like my suggestion. The world is changing and religious chains must not bind a pure virtue as love.
    Love is free bird. Even, Mahesh family mi8 nt comply with your marriage. Bt donn forget, ye tumhari duniya hai. Change is not always acceptable. Bt without change, the world won't move forward. Be the initiator. Marry Mahesh and prove to the world what love can do. Allah tala tum dono ko khush rakhe :-)
  • Jun 18, 2012, 06:45 PM
    jenniepepsi
    In Hinduism, it is STRICTLY forbidden to marry outside of Hindu.

    In Islam, it IS permissible to marry outside of Islam, but only in other Muslim sects, Christianity, or Judaism.
  • Jul 13, 2012, 02:13 PM
    kpbm31
    Hi Ayesha

    Could you convince your parents?
  • Jul 14, 2012, 05:52 PM
    Bunnykins
    Okie I'm a Muslim girl my question to you is Ayesha.. how religious are you? :-/
  • Aug 2, 2012, 02:52 PM
    irrams2210
    What kind of question is that? Of course your not allowed to marry out of Islam! Do your research, you can marry him if he agrees to Convert and live his life like a muslim, if you choose to marry him with him staying a Hindu you are no longer entitled to the rights you have as a muslim, i.e you won't be entitled to any inheritance from your family, not only that but you are greatly sinning, so you should pray to Allah and repent, don't listen to these people who are saying 'May Lord Shiva help you' you are NOT a Hindu we muslims don't worship Idols, go back to your religion, and study deeply, I question that your faith is weak cause you didn'r even know what your doing now is a sin, you should also note that you cannot marry without your parents namely your fathers permission, your parents are telling you the truth, your life on this earth is a test never forget that and Allah is forever testing us. You need to turn to your deen more, it is not permissible for you to marry him under any circumstances, do it the Islamic way otherwise you'll be shunned by everyone, and you should fear Allah as a muslim you should know that our real life starts after death, and Allah has promised a harsh punishment for the one who turns against Islam, I encourage you to read into Islam more or contact a scholar or someone you can talk to to deeped your faith. Feel free to email me at >Removed< if you need to.
    Khudafiz
  • Jan 8, 2013, 04:22 AM
    a human
    Ek baar apne dil se pucho ki tum Allah se jyada pyar karti ho you us hindu boy se,
    Tun bahoot badi musibat mai fas jaogi,
    Please
    Apne maa - baap kai bare mai socho jinhone tumhe pala- posa bada kiya

    Ek baar jahunnum ki aag kai bare mai bhi jarur sochna ,jo tum per aane wali hai
    Esa khayal karna bhi gunah hai

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