I'm a natural light brunette but for years have been lightening it. I got tired of blonde so I dyed it auburn which came out nice. I kept up the auburn using Loving care non-permanent dye but then got tired of that. I wanted to go back to blonde so 3 months ago used revlon ultra light natural blonde shade #4 which turned my hair reddish orange. I let it grow out for 3 months and then repeated the process again with revlon blonde #4 today. Again reddish orange. I really want to go light blonde but don't want to ruin my long curly hair and have to cut it. PLEASE HELP! SHOULD I LIGHTEN MY HAIR AGAIN? I HATE THE ORANGE RED BUT DON'T WANT TO GO BROWN OR AUBURN AGAIN. HELP!

Bleach it, then dye it the blonde you want, that's what I did and I have dark brown hair.

What products did u use?

But revlon ultra light natural blonde lightened it to orange, so should I count that as the bleaching stage? In other words should I just pick out any blonde I want now and use that or get a bleaching kit and start completely over?

Bleach should not be used right after dying your hair! Use a 40 volume developer & a packet of lightening powder (ion product) you can get at your nearest hair care & beauty store... sallys is where I go. If you ask someone they should all be able to answer any of your questions!