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  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:15 PM
    mafiaangel180
    Would it be rude if I changed the plans?
    Ok, there is this guy that I went out 3 times with. He asked me if I wanted to get Chinese tonight, and I told him yes. I am feeling kind of sick because it was Mexican day at work... and seriously Chinese on top of Mexican is asking for trouble. Lol. At any rate, I want to hang out with him. But how rude would it be if I suggested a movie instead? (it's one that he showed interest in) One friend said it would be rude, and one said it would be OK. I kind of want to go with the majority on this one. Guys and girls, let's have it... is it rude to change the plan?
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:19 PM
    HistorianChick
    Naa... that's not rude.

    If anything, it will let this guy know that you're interested. You aren't feeling well and yet you still want to hang out.

    A movie is a good idea - popcorn will help settle your stomach too! :)

    (BTW: the ULTIMATE in movie food?? Buy a small popcorn and a bag of peanut M&Ms. Pour M&Ms into the popcorn. Ration= 2 popcorns, 1 M&M. Divinity! ;) )
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:23 PM
    spitvenom
    I don't think it is rude. I think he will understand, no worries!! Have fun at the movies!
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:23 PM
    Romefalls19
    Definitely not rude at all. Like Historian said, it shows you still care enough to actually want to hang out
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:23 PM
    mafiaangel180
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by HistorianChick
    Naa... that's not rude.

    If anything, it will let this guy know that you're interested. You aren't feeling well and yet you still want to hang out.

    A movie is a good idea - popcorn will help settle your stomach too! :)

    (BTW: the ULTIMATE in movie food??? Buy a small popcorn and a bag of peanut M&Ms. Pour M&Ms into the popcorn. Ration= 2 popcorns, 1 M&M. Divinity!! ;) )

    Seriously, are you my long lost sister?? When I go I always get popcorn and goobers, which is like peanut M&Ms!! Lol. :)

    OMG... I could totally go for twizzlers right now too.
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:27 PM
    HistorianChick
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mafiaangel180
    Seriously, are you my long lost sister???? When I go I always get popcorn and goobers, which is like peanut M&Ms!!!! lol. :)

    OMG....I could totally go for twizzlers right now too.

    LOL! I blame it on my Gilmore addiction...

    Just another nail in the coffin of "You are Lorelai Gilmore!"

    Have fun tonight! ;)

    MMmmmmm twizzlers... Sour Patch Kids... Goobers...

    Crud... :)
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:33 PM
    mafiaangel180
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by HistorianChick
    LOL! I blame it on my Gilmore addiction....

    Just another nail in the coffin of "You are Lorelai Gilmore!"

    Have fun tonight! ;)

    MMmmmmm twizzlers..... Sour Patch Kids..... Goobers......

    Crud.... :)


    GG+popcorn+M&Ms+twizzlers=a great night lol.
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:35 PM
    Romefalls19
    Add Romefalls into that mix and the night becomes one to remember... I prefer One Tree Hill though
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:37 PM
    HistorianChick
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Romefalls19
    Add Romefalls into that mix and the night becomes one to remember...I prefer One Tree Hill though

    Aww... you're a doll. I'm sure RomeFalls would make it a night to remember! You agree, Mafia? Think we should make room on the couch?

    Although, you should try GG... my brother thinks the show is not half bad!

    (Don't tell him I said that though... ;) )
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:39 PM
    mafiaangel180
    Ok, thanks a lot guys! I just asked him. And he said it was OK. Let's hope he didn't have his heart set on Chinese... I could do it, but I doubt he wants to hold my hair back for me. LOL.
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:39 PM
    mafiaangel180
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Romefalls19
    Add Romefalls into that mix and the night becomes one to remember...I prefer One Tree Hill though

    I love OTH!!
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:40 PM
    Romefalls19
    Ha ha yea, I don't tell a lot of my friends I watch One Tree Hill, or the O.C(when it was on) or those sappy drama shows ha ha
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:40 PM
    mafiaangel180
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by HistorianChick
    Aww... you're a doll. I'm sure RomeFalls would make it a night to remember! You agree, Mafia? Think we should make room on the couch?

    Although, you should try GG.... my brother thinks the show is not half bad!

    (Don't tell him I said that though...... ;) )

    Heck yes there's room on the couch. Watch some GG, some OTH, and stuff our faces. Sounds great to me!
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:41 PM
    HistorianChick
    Or... you could have him over to your place, let him order Chinese in (you get your trusty microwave popcorn), and watch a movie on your cozy couch...

    If he has his heart set on Chinese, that is... :)

    Glad it worked out for you - see! Trust us. We be wise. Wise are we. :)
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:42 PM
    mafiaangel180
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by HistorianChick
    Or..... you could have him over to your place, let him order Chinese in (you get your trusty microwave popcorn), and watch a movie on your cozy couch....

    If he has his heart set on Chinese, that is.... :)

    Glad it worked out for you - see! Trust us. We be wise. Wise are we. :)

    You guys are the best. :D
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:42 PM
    HistorianChick
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mafiaangel180
    Heck yes there's room on the couch. Watch some GG, some OTH, and stuff our faces. Sounds great to me!


    New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and Tennessee... crud... this could pose a problem for the couch thing...

    And besides, you have a hot date! :D

    Rome and I will watch our dramas and stuff our faces... you enjoy your movie!
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:44 PM
    mafiaangel180
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by HistorianChick
    New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and Tennessee.... crud.... this could pose a problem for the couch thing....

    And besides, you have a hot date! :D

    Rome and I will watch our dramas and stuff our faces... you enjoy your movie!

    Ok, is it sick that I prefer GG and OTH to dating? Dear God, what's wrong with me??
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:46 PM
    HistorianChick
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mafiaangel180
    Ok, is it sick that I prefer GG and OTH to dating? Dear God, what's wrong with me?????

    An honest woman. Yessss...

    Darlin, now I'm convinced we were separated at birth. Wow...

    Oh, and what is this about Luke asking Lindsey to marry him?? Silly girl... Lorelai asked Luke. Dean asked Lindsey... :D

    (you'd think they'd make new names... )
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:48 PM
    mafiaangel180
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by HistorianChick
    An honest woman. Yessss....

    Darlin, now I'm convinced we were separated at birth. Wow...

    Oh, and what is this about Luke asking Lindsey to marry him??? Silly girl... Lorelai asked Luke. Dean asked Lindsey.... :D

    (you'd think they'd make new names.....)

    LMAO!!

    Yeah, they definitely need to create some new names! What's up with that? Lol.
  • Feb 20, 2008, 12:49 PM
    HistorianChick
    Honestly, I've not seen one single, solitary episode of OTH or the OC.

    I'm addicted to GG and loyal I shall ever be. :)

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