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  • Jul 31, 2007, 09:01 PM
    marie302
    I'm in love: I guess
    I'm in love with my tranier. So do I tell him. Or not? I've text him before but he doesn't write back. What does that mean? He doesn't call anymore?
  • Jul 31, 2007, 09:04 PM
    rankrank55
    If this guy likes you he would approach you on his own. How are yo so sure you are in love? Take a step back and let things happen on their own. If it is meant to be it will be, if not then that's okay too.
  • Jul 31, 2007, 09:06 PM
    marie302
    True. But want him... so what does it mean when he doesn't call or text me anymore... he use to all the time
  • Jul 31, 2007, 09:11 PM
    rankrank55
    Well usually that means he is simply not interested anymore. The worst thing you can do in that situation is to not look desperate by texting and calling even though he doesn't reply. Relax, don't worry about him, be confident, and be yourself. He will come around if he wants but don't count on it. Find yourself someone who is head over heals for you; you deserve it.
  • Aug 1, 2007, 05:22 AM
    kristynn
    Honey, you can't be in love with him. It might be what we call "infatuation".

    WHAT did you text him?
  • Aug 6, 2007, 04:18 PM
    marie302
    I text him how is it going? then he text back I'm at a friends b-day partywhats going down? What does that mean
  • Aug 6, 2007, 04:23 PM
    J_9
    It means that he is not interested. Thought that there might be something wrong.

    If he is not texting you, leave him alone. Men want what they can't have. Make yourself unavailable.

    You are not in love with him, you are in LUST with him. Love is mutual. Lust is not.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 05:02 PM
    marie302
    OK what if I make myself unavailable. How is going to know that. If he doesn't call.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 06:35 PM
    kristynn
    He doesn't sound interested. He's having his own fun and you're not part of his plans, but you're all so after him. Leave him alone!

    You're infatuated and you're wasting your time on someone who's not available. You might be missing out on someone who is. I assume you went overboard with showing interest in him and because it's not mutual attraction, he doesn't call you anymore.

    Stop texting him; stop calling him. If he wants to talk to you, he'll call.

    Marie, you have your own life and it should not revolve around him.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 07:07 PM
    J_9
    Men don't want needy, clingy. Leave the dude alone. It is pretty apparent he doesn't want a relationship at this time.

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