So when does a female become a girlfriend and is a great thing to be friends first?
I have been seeing this man for 2 months now. Great guy-we have a lot in common, get along well.we do a lot for one another,same morals and values See each other 1 time per week, he calls me 2-3 times perday-we talk for hours, more when we both have time. We are both 49(I divorced, he never married) I was told by my counselor to be patient with him as he has never been in a commitment. We are still getting to know each other, no sex yet(but heavy petting and great kissing,touching and cuddling in bed), as we both want to know each other more. Nice for a change. I am kind of stumped by this. He said while on the phone with me(he was out with the guys at a bar) He said I am not here to pick up anyone as they are, "I have you. When people ask me if I have a girlfriend I say no, but I am committed to you and would never cheat on you" I told him I have you and no cheating on you and I am committed to you". I imagine that's a guy thing to not want to admit to having a girlfriend. So I guess beings we are friends that means we are on the way to more. They say friends then a relationship. Most of my frinds say they were friends before their relationship. He seems to like me, I get that feeling from him, but when does a guy admit you're his girlfriend or do I ask? Don't want to rock the boat and I should be patient when I have a good thing. Any advice.