Ill try to keep it short. I'm 30 year old guy, no kids and never been married. Im dating, or thought I was dating a co-worker who is 38, divorced, has 2 teenagers, going back to school, lives with ex's husbands' parents, has a stress filled life. She doesn't know what she is doing from one day to the other, always late when we do go out, always dated the "bad boy" type and has been hurt by everyone of those bad boys. Things where fun up until last week. I got the dreaded, "I need space" text. I right then and there was thinking, yup its over. Seeing I have gotten the "i need space" from previous girlfriends I know not to have any contact with her. I told her take as much time as you need, I'm here for you and call me when your ready. Im thinking to just move on. My problem is we work for the same company, however its only a few minutes a day that I see her,( when I punch out and leave) different departments. I really have no idea what way this is going to end but my question is if she does decide to stay with me am I crazy for being with a woman with so much baggage? It doesn't bother me that she has a lot on her plate. What bothers me is she is always late when we do go out, is always stressed out by work, kids, living situation and school. I have talked to about this and the answer I just is I'm sorry this is my life. When we did spend time together is was great. She is very caring, out going, shows affection, great in bed and many other qualities. I hope for the best but planning for the worst.