Help I've got these skin coloured spots on my penis I've ask about this before and I got told its natural! But I would like a second appinunn so what do you think? And also can I get rid of them because I'm scared to have sex with my girlfiend and I really don't no what to do!:( what do you think I should do?

If you could hurry and anser my question this would help me so much! As I got to addmit I'm scared about it!


Thank you!

Tim

They are normal and natural. Most adult men do have these spots. If they are not painful and you have never had sex, then you don't have to worry about STDs.

They are called sebaceous cysts, basically just a little oil built up under the skin is all it is.

OK then thank you a lot you have helped but I have got one more question will they go or can I get rid of them becausee other wise I'm going to be scared to have sex with my girlfriend so what do I do?



Thank you!


Tim

Usually they don't go away, and most likely you can't get rid of them. They are normal and most men have them.

If you are scared to have sex because of this, maybe you are too young to have sex? Also, remember that ifyou have sex, you run the risk of being a father no matter what kind of birth control you use. The only 100% effective method of birth control is no sex.

Are you ready for fatherhood yet?

Just food for thought.

Once again thank you! Lol and no I'm not ready to be a dad that's y I would use a comdom! And I understand what you are saying but even if they don't go what am I going to do because I don't always want to be scared of having sex? :confused:


Thank you


Tim

Well, first you have to mature enough so that you are confident with who you are as a person. I know it sounds harsh, but I have boys most likely around your age, but you are not ready yet, with a condom or not, if you are not confident with yourself.

How about the person with a birthmark on their face? Do you think they are scared to go out in public? Probably not, because they know WHO they are inside. That is what is important.

You are young. Get some life experience under your belt before you begin having sex and babies. And NO condoms are not 100% effective either.

My nursing school class did an experiment with condoms. We had 100 condoms and we filled them all with water. Guess how many had teeny tiny microscopic holes in them where the water (sperm) would leak out?

67

So, see, even if the condom doesn't break or come off, there is still a chance.

Enjoy what life you have now, get confident with your own skin, before you risk losing your freedom.

Great answer J-9.
I bet you are the best mom!

Well I've got to say your good lol I can't thank you enuff and I understand everything your saying!
:D


Thank you


Tim

LOL, Tim I am a Mom of 4 kids ages 20, 19, 13, and 4. And they are all still virgins. So, I kind of know where I am coming from.

I am 42 and too young to be a grandmother :p. I am sure your Mother feels the same way.:rolleyes:

Just learn to feel comfortable with who you are and the right time will present itself. Just don't rush. You are not ready yet.;)

Hello again I'm not going to go on anymore about them spots even though I'm still worring about then :( but I wanted to ask another question this is going to sound pritty silly but it seems that the skin on my penis is shredding and I know that sounds odd but what is going on? Please help


Thank you once again

Tim

Dry Skin??? Go To Your Doctor. Please Do Us All A Favour And Go To The Doctor Then Maybe You Will Not Worry So Much! As Far As The Spots Go. Normal.

Listen mate, I'm 16 right and I've lost a girlfriend over all this penis spot crap purely because I couldn't get over myself and come to terms with it. I was so insecure with myself I made her avoid getting intimate with me. Then we split up and the break I had with her and my current girlfriend made me realize what I've been doing. I told myself just to explain myself, what my condition is. Now we're both comfortable with it and are very happy.

So my advice for you friend is build up the confidence and just tell her clean how it is. If she runs off, she's not ready for sex yet. But I tell you know, its best getting the 'speech' out the way so your not worrying if she's just going to force herself on you and finding out with a shock-horror face! Honestly, just get it done you'll be much happier.

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hello again im not going to go on anymore about them spots even though im still worring about then :( but i wanted to ask another question this is going to sound pritty silly but it seems that the skin on my penis is shredding and i know that sounds odd but what is going on?? please help


thank you once again

Tim

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First and foremost, if your concerned enough about it to ask, then you should be concerned about it enough to ask your doctor. Do not be afraid to bring it up to them as they are held by oath and by law to keep things confidential.

Secondly, I can tell you this. I Masterbate (as do most people), on occaision I have found that using the wrong lubricant, particularly if it is a soap based. (ie, Using the shampoo while taking a shower), usually once or twice isn't a problem, but if you used something like this too many times, it can cause the more sensitive skin on the penis to dry out. When this happens, it begins to crack and peel. Which can be anywhere from painless to very itchy.

I do not know if this applies to your case, but again, if you are concerned about it, go talk to your doc. Especially if you are having any other symptoms such as itching, or bleeding.

Hey man I know how you feel,
Ive had the shredding stuff before and its weird... but I went to the doctors even though I was afraid to and I realized that it was because of sensitive skin. I was masterbating with lotion and it irritated my skin. So I was told to use plain vasiline and it went away.

Don't be so worried. A lot of people have these problem, and after I went to the doctors I was so relived.

If your worried about being a father just pull out before it happens that's what I do I mean I do where condom evrytime but just to be safe I pull out