I give him what he wants but he can't give me what I want?
My boyfriend was really horny the other night and talked me into having sex with him. Usually I want a little more time to get aroused so the sex feels better but he wanted it really bad, so I let him bend me over. After that, I asked him to finger me and he said he was hot and he would in a minute. Well.. he never did. And he never wants to finger me if I ask him, he will say he is too tired, etc. I love the way he does it though, it almost feels better than sex. I just do not see why he won't finger me after I just had sex with him. How do I let him know how I feel without him making up some excuse?