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  • Jun 16, 2007, 02:57 AM
    How_to_cope
    What do othe females do after a guy finishes
    I was with my girlfriend for three years and we used to have great sex without protection and I would come in her but ahter sex I want to no what do other people do? I would come in her and then it would drip out and sometimes if she is on top she will let it drip onto me and other times she would just go to sleep but normally she would let it drip out onto some tissues and throw them away... She just seems annoyed sometimes because its like a mess that it drips out. What do most girls do after a guy comes in them she is the only girl I've cme in so I'm nut sure what the normal routine is dooes eeryone let it drip out or what do they do? Soory if this is a bad question would just like to know...
  • Jun 16, 2007, 04:29 AM
    ashleysb
    I always make my boyfriend use condoms, so I don't deal with this problem. And from what you said about your girlfriend being annoyed by this, she should have probably had you use one too.

    P.S. I read your first sentence completely wrong and almost spit coffee on my monitor! ;)
  • Jun 16, 2007, 04:39 AM
    templelane
    Tissues! Laughing gets it out faster- or a trip to the loo (which is supposed to be better for you anyway). We just make sure we have tissues around. Yeh it can be very messy - maybe just save au natural for special occasions/ compromise with her if she prefers no mess? You should talk to her and find out if she actually gets annoyed or if she just pretends/exaggerates.
  • Jun 16, 2007, 10:25 AM
    Dennis777
    Hello

    As with any form of Love Making you need to talk. You both need to let each other know what's good and bad. What's good today might not be good the next time so you need to be open with each other. Many times its not what you think it is that is making her mad.

    Good Luck
    Dennis777
  • Jun 16, 2007, 11:41 AM
    Greg Quinn
    Quote"so I'm nut sure what the normal routine "

    LOL

    I have had girls that have done this. Oh well! Condom's are messy too. Ummmm... Tell her to try to take the cumm and masterbate with it. That worked for me. LOL
  • Jun 17, 2007, 12:46 AM
    pinup0101
    It is messy... that is all there is to it. It's important to go to the bathroom afterwards (this allows the mess to go somewhere and it also prevents urinary tract infections -very painful) I usually sit on the toilet for a few minutes to let it drip out... then when I wipe I have to press inside myself slightly and get more out (that sounds soooo disgusting right now but I'm being honest and trying to help)... sometimes I have to get up again to wipe some more depending on the day... all in all, it's messy. No biggie!
  • Jun 17, 2007, 06:15 AM
    mckenzie134
    My girlfriend you to ride me then when I came she would let it drip on me and sometimes she would even rub up against me... how disgusting!! Now oi think of it..
  • Jun 18, 2007, 06:03 AM
    smoothy
    Wife just goes to the bathroom and it sort of comes out pretty quick when she's upright. Then she washes up and comes back to be. No messy sheets that way.

    Freak her out sometime then go down on her after you . Take care of it at the same time. Wife's asked me to do that sometime but haven't gotten the nerve up to do it. Then no reason for a bathroom run.
  • Jun 19, 2007, 04:50 PM
    bekah876
    It is perfectly nature for the excess semen to ooze out and there is nothing you can do to prevent it. My husband and I always put a towel under me before he is about to get off so that way we save the sheets from getting so messy. It is an annoyance that it won't all stay in and be so romantic like the movies... but life is messy. After sex I always have to go to the bathroom and clean myself up. It doesn't mean that I didn't enjoy sex it just means that I don't want to be slippery, slimy, and sticky. If it really bothers you ask her about it, but she is probably trying to get herself cleaned up quickly before she gets it all over you or the bed.
  • Jun 20, 2007, 02:50 AM
    laura hamilton
    We have tissues so I can put one under me while I run to the loo, That way none of it goes everywhere. Then I just go to the loo then Clean up.
  • Jun 20, 2007, 05:34 PM
    nya
    Hi,

    Me and my husband for years would finish in bed and then go to the bathroom together and wipe off with our hand towels and then lay back in the bed. Now we use wet wipes and they are so convenient!! So when we finish, we reach for the wet wipes, clean up and doze off.
  • Jun 22, 2007, 09:29 PM
    laodemon22
    This sound really nasty, but a friend of mine would go down his girlfriend after he came in her. And you pretty much get the picture.
  • Jun 22, 2007, 10:08 PM
    talaniman
    I thought everybody just rolled over and went to sleep. I can't wait to tell the wife.
  • Jun 24, 2007, 02:49 PM
    jeremy4719
    Get a towel and let her wipe that cream pie off... Easiest way.. Just keep one near by... It's a normal part of life...
  • Jun 24, 2007, 02:49 PM
    jeremy4719
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by laodemon22
    this sound really nasty, but a friend of mine would go down his girlfriend after he came in her. And you pretty much get the picture.

    UGH!!
  • Jun 25, 2007, 10:56 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by laodemon22
    this sound really nasty, but a friend of mine would go down his girlfriend after he came in her. And you pretty much get the picture.

    Wife wants me to try that. I haven't found the guts to do it however.
  • Jun 25, 2007, 11:35 AM
    jeremy4719
    That is gross IMO... But you could always offer to go down on her if she is willing to return the favor back or vice versa... ;)
  • Jun 25, 2007, 12:02 PM
    smoothy
    Well, I've always told her my policy was I won't ask her to do something I won't do myself. And well if you look at it there really is not much difference than her doing a non stop BJ. She's asked me abut luckily doesn't feel strongly enough to push the issue.

    One day I'll do it as a special gift for her. Without prior notice of course. As a surprise. I just haven't worked up the nerve to do it yet.
  • Jun 25, 2007, 06:27 PM
    jeremy4719
    There's one thing in ingesting the other persons juices, that is hot, but taking in your own is a bit much for me to stomach...

    Good luck though if you decide to try that endeavor.
  • Jun 25, 2007, 06:44 PM
    stonewilder
    I don't know what most women do. I try to keep a towel near the bed 'cause I can make as much a mess as he can. I keep it under me till I'm ready to get up, then I go pee and wash up. Not to say I've never just rolled over and went to sleep but well... eew!

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