So, I probably already know your suggestions but
I posted a few times about a month ago, about what happened between myself and my husband, and how things were GREAT. That no matter all the bad things, we loved each other more.
Now - IM the one that's not so sure. I do love him, and I'm attracted to him, but I feel like were more like friends than a married couple. I've been distant and stand-offish towards him. He's a great guy, but I feel WAY different than a wife should feel.
Our sex life has went from great to, almost non-existant. He says he always wants sex, but doesn't touch me other than cuddling next to me, and I think he may have a medical condition,but we won't get into that. My point is, that I don't even wnt sex with him anymore - I'd rather take care of myself, and NOT have sex, than to be intimate with my husband on that level... is it right to feel that way? I don't even know if I want to try counseling. I don't believe in divorce, but I don't know that I have the feelings for him to stay either. Is this just a phase? Has anyone else felt this way??
ERica