Originally Posted by
talaniman
Don't be ashamed by his actions, as its often the case after a 6 months to a year that we can see without the blindness of love, and start seeing and understanding the true nature, and character of the one we are involved with.
Ignoring the fact that you were doing all the work didn't help, but you were hopeful it would pay off. It always sucks when it doesn't, but don't beat yourself up over it. While this experiment failed, it had its fun, and you take the lessons learned to the next experiment.
Trust me, you will be more aware of those red flags, question more, and be more practical when it comes to romance.
Freedom to date others, and have more than one option, and opportunities for romance. Lets be fair, what was the agreement and status between you both?