I met this guy from work like two months ago and at first we didn't talk much but than he started talking to me joking around saying that we should have sex... I always laugh at him believing that he was joking. But one time we were on the messenger he started saying that he was thinking of me and tha he was being serous that he wanted to have sex with and he asked me if I was a virgin and I answer him that I wasn't and that I have had sex two times (im 23y old) so he said that I didn't had much experience and he asked me if I thought of having sex with co-workers he mention several name and at last he asked me if I would had sex with him and I said no too. So than two days passes by and I did think about it and I wrote him that I would have sex with him but with no strings attach and he wrote me back that he sometimes he was like he really didn't care about anything and didn't mind having sex with anyone, and sometime he was in to a lot of emotions and saying that he still has feelings for his ex and I was like OK its fine with me... but inside really made me feel so bad. Im woundering why he change his mind. Was it bcs I reject him at first? And how do I show him that I really want something with him? Please help :confused:
