My boyfriend can't get enough of naked women and I fill like chopped liver when he sees me now
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My boyfriend can't get enough of naked women and I fill like chopped liver when he sees me now
Have you discussed this with him? In what capacity is he viewing naked women; Porn? Strip Clubs, Online Sites?
Sounds like he's just very horny or maybe a sex addict,I used to know a guy who would view porn nearly 24 7.He had at least 300 dvds and 100 gigs worth of porn on his comp.it ruined most of his relationships till he married a girl who liked porn more then him.been married for 3 years now and they seem very happy.Point is,is that there must be a reason as to why he views naked women so often,horny,getting bored,or simply addicted.Best thing to do is confront him.
What do you mean he can not have enough naked women??
Who is he with? You? If he is with you then there is not a need to feel like chopped liver.
Like the others have asked you, how do you mean this? Is he going out to the clubs, watching porn, downloading pics or buying magazines? If you have talked to him and this is not getting better and you are feeling worse, then you really need to make the decision on whether you can live with his addiction. It does not sound like it. He is happy and you are miserable.
One thing I would say, never compare yourself to those women, to any other woman in fact. You can look around and always see someone whose hair is more gorgeous, whose body is a 10++++, and whose assests are seemingly better. But you know many of those are paid to look that way. Men suffer from this malasy also, comparing themselves to other guys. It is so self defeating and you never can win at it.
Accept yourself as a beautiful, vibrant woman with many talents and skills that any man would cherish. Because that is true. If your boyfriend needs porn to make his day, he is missing out on the best part of life with you.
Most normal guys can't get enough naked women. But keep this point in mind. He chose you. If he chose to be monogamous with you that says a lot about you so don't sweat the little things.
Well we have a great sex life but he has always liked porn naked photos and I have mentioned it before and he said that women are beautiful and god has to be a man for creating such beauty I don't mind him looking at web sites of models or maxim girls but it seems like when I get into his computer to log things in for work he has been on sexalexa verticalsmiles and just stuff like that if he is learning something for US great, but if he comes home from work and doesn't acted like he can't wait for sex then it bothers me. Its like if you talk on the phone all day or watch kids all day the last thing you want to do when you get home is talk on the phone or play with kids.You know what I mean. Thanks for responding.Quote:
Originally Posted by modular01
I think is also depends on how old he is also I went through the same stuff with my husband years ago. Then he hit about age 26-27 and he started "maturing" and not looking at the porn stuff anymore. Have you talked to him about how you feel about it? Maybe he thinks that you know and don't care if he looks because you never said anything to him. I have been through all the same stuff as you, where they get all geared up from looking all day and then want to have sex with you and it is kind of aggrivating so I hear everything your saying
As Ron White puts it... "Once you have seen one woman nekkid,,,,,,,,,,,you want to see them ALL nekked"!!
It is a normal , natural thing. And I agree,, he IS with you.
I think you have to stop and evaluate your young boyfriend... what does he do with his life?
A healthy man has a job, two to three sports he participates in, a couple of hobbies, reading interests, friends, and a girlfriend... to be concise! :)
If your guy just watches porn-his naked women-, masturbates and has sex, and works, then you have a problem. This is a guy ripe for porn-masturbation addiction. Porn-Masturbation addiction is not a substance addiction like alcoholism, it is a process addiction, if I have the expression right. One way a person can test whether he/she has a porn-masturbation addiction is to give up porn for 30 days. An addict cannot do it.
Maybe he will take the test for you?
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Originally Posted by Choux
There you go again Choux,, passing judgement and declaring yet another "porn addict".
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