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  • Sep 21, 2010, 07:25 AM
    bluefish69
    My husband gets hard but then goes soft right after we start having sex
    I never been skinny but I was like a 16 18 now I'm a 22 24 and I'm wondering if that's why this happening it really bothers me I feel like his penis goes soft inside me cause I'm not as a turn on as much please help?! I don't know why this is happening he has no problem getting hard but recently he goes soft right after we are having sex inside me help whyy?!
  • Sep 21, 2010, 08:10 AM
    Cat1864

    It would help if we had more background information such as how old both of you are and when the last time he had a check up was. Also, if he has any health problems or is taking medications or 'self-medicating'.
  • Sep 24, 2010, 04:03 AM
    Haydenroberts
    If it is because of your weight you could take up yoga or pilates or something to get the weight off, just a physical activity u can do a few times a week that you won't get bored with, maybe you could play tennis with him or something. Another thing you can do is reflexology or massage around the inner thigh area, it might be because of lack of blood flow. It could be psychological but I wouldn't know what. My guess is that men can get it up for most women so it probably isn't you, smoking and drugs and lack of mental stimulation can all be causes of it, but yeah I can't guess what it is but some of those things I said might work.
  • Sep 24, 2010, 06:23 AM
    smoothy

    THe problem is his... and he really should see a doctor because unless he is more than twice your age he really shouldn't be experiencing that sort of problem. And even at THAT age its due to medical issues.
  • Sep 24, 2010, 08:19 AM
    mrshodges

    I agree with smoothy. My first thought was either erecticle dysfunction or low testosterone. I'm not sure if weight has anything to do with it.
  • Sep 24, 2010, 08:42 AM
    Cat1864

    She hasn't given her age. The numbers are her clothing sizes.

    It sounds like he is having medical difficulties of some sort, but without more information from the op there is isn't much else that can be said.
  • Sep 24, 2010, 09:41 AM
    smoothy

    Good point... how did we miss that.

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