I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend two nights ago and I woke up the next day ith cramping, similar to menstral cramps, and heaey discharge. Like more than normal and more than usually have during sex. He did pull out before he orgasmed so I'm not sure what's going on. Also its day two and things are still the same...

You do know and understand that pulling out only gets the sheets messy?

You can still get pregnant even if he pulls out.
When you are not on birth control, and there is no protection, a baby is often the result. I am not saying this is your case, but you seem to assume it could not be a chance.

I think she was implying that the heavy discharge she was having was not a result of "him"... wink wink. I would call your doctor and make an appointment. It could be something as simple as ovarian cysts or it could be something more serious. Trying to self diagnose yourself when it comes to female reproductive systems is never a good idea. The symptoms one person has often times are not the same someone else has. You should go be checked out. And start using a condom unless you are ready for parenthood.

Thank you. I AM on birth control but thanks for the help...

I didn't mean to sound like your mom... you said that you had "unprotected" sex. So I assumed. I applaude you for taking the necessary steps to prevent an unwanted pregnancy. Its too bad that more women and young girls don't think that way. Either way sweety, I think you should call your doc.

I wasn't referring to you... thanks for the help. When I said unprotected I meant without a condom... not without any necessary precaution. I was referring to the ridiculous comment left before yours.

Ahhh, got it. Your very welcome.

I don't think Fr_Chucks comment is all that ridiculous at all. Just read this board long enough and you would be surprised by the large number of people that think pulling out is viable birth control, then are puzzled by how they end up pregnant.

Typically that's what unprotected sex is referring to. There was no mention of birth control in the original post.

However with that said it would be a good idea to visit your Gynecologist because you need to find out what's wrong. It may be minor but finding out soon is never a bad idea.

Just because he pulled out it means nuthing. OK so this will sound lame but I just got the latest issues of cosmo for the month of augest I think with julia styles and it had a whole section on this. Depending on what you have if its just cramps and discharge then this might be it might not either way see your dr. asap it could be seroius. In the mag. It says if you have abdominal pain, discharge, fever, pain while urinating, or irregular menstral bleeding it could be pelvic inflammatory disease. I believe it could be if this happens regularly. You might have contracted and std so go see your doctor either way OK!

O Troubles, no offense or disrespect whatsoever but I feel that Pelvic Inflamatory disease is just what they diagnose when they don't have an answer for anything else! Usually there is a reason but sometimes not always readily available or enough to actually find from a pap smear etc.

OK sorry just trying to help either way id see a doctor so u know for sure

Oh no harm done, I just wanted to make sure that I pointed that out that it seems that they diagnose that when they don't know what else to diagnose. I agree with your suggestion though that she definetely needs to be seen by her doctor.

The same kind of stuff has been happening to me its weird. I hope its not an std cause I didn't really know the guys background that I had sex with so there is a possibility. (I know how naïve and stupid)