I don't know what to do anymore - meeting my biological parents?
Hello,
I'm an adoptee. I want to meet my biological parents but I'm afraid that they don't want to see me. I feel a little bit unwanted because they gave me away. I also don't dare to talk to my adoptive parents about meeting my biological parents. I'm afraid that they'll think that I'm ungrateful. I really don't know what to do and I'm thinking of this at almost every moment on every day. I hope someone has advice for me!
Thanks, Vincent.
P.S. I'm sorry for my bad English.
Comment on Fr_Chuck's post
I want to meet them because I'm curious. I mean, I want to know who they are, if I look like them and stuff. My ap's have a little bit information about them. Their names and where they lived at the time. I don't know if they still are together as a couple. Why should I make contact through a third party? I know that I may get dissapointed, but my life does not feel complete or something. I don't know how to explain. I also want to know why they gave me up for adoption. You know, if they just didn't want me that'd really hurt me. But I'd rather know that than knowing nothing.