There is a new guy at work--been there about six weeks. He was so sweet and nice at first--made it a point to make eye contact with me and say hi, even if I didn't notice he was around at first. His smile lit up the world. I've smiled and made eye contact right back, and found reasons to visit his office for work-related reasons. I'm terribly shy, but this helped me get more comfortable around him. He seems quite shy too. Suddenly, he is avoiding me. It's going on 10 days now. Why? I haven't behaved inappropriately, but I did totally feel what I thought was a mutual attraction.