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    Nov 21, 2011, 11:31 AM
    How do I get over this crush that is taking over my life!
    I have a boyfriend who I love but have been with for so long :) so yeah I'm going to look at others and have done and I'm sure he has at least once... but my latest crush is taking over my life! Its not fair I can't go 10 minutes without thinking about him... he's around 45... not that good looking but I find him attractive, a manager, just split up with his wife and has a child... he's funny and really really nice and a strong guy :) he knows I like him as I told him when he gave me a lift home once, he even asked if I wanted to go to his as he knows I wouldn't tell anyone, but I said no because I didn't want to cheat, we text quite a bit and every time he jokes I should go to his its getting harder to resist. Also when we were both drunk at a work get together we almost kissed... apart of me knows it would have been wrong but I also wished it happened... I want to kiss him so bad... when its his shift at work I'm so nervous all the time, we small talk a lot and sometimes flirt if I feel a little more confident than usual... he's knows I feel nervous when he's around and he's says he feels the same... Does this sound like he likes me back? I know it doesn't matter either way... and one other thing I have started doing extra shifts here and there when he's working... only to see him (I tell people its because I want the money) - though I only do this when our work shifts are completely different... i.e I'm working this Thursday even though its my day off just because he's running the shift... I'm thinking how sad am I... how do I get over this crush! And do you think he likes me back (I've caught him looking at me a couple of times - and he mentions that he can't focus well when I'm around) please help...

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