Hi,

This is sort of graphic, but I need to describe my situation to the full extent so I can get the answer I need.. I've never had sex before, but I did "hook up" with someone about a week ago. We did not have sex, but he did finger me after a blow job (I think it was one-he came). Two days after, I began to feel sick almost every morning, and have had an upset stomach including diharea, and gassiness. (it is funny because my last period in August I had been feeling naseaus every morning before the period, which is not a normal symptom for me) One morning when I woke up later however, I did not have any of these symptoms. I got my last period around August 22. So in this case, I should be getting my period around the 22nd of September. Yesterday, I got what I thought was my period, it was a darkish red color (just a little bit) so I put a tampon in and thought nothing of it. I also have some of the normal period symptoms like bloating, breaking out on my face, and my boobs seemed to enlarge a bit, however they are not swollen). Before I went to bed, I took the tampon on, and noticed there was not much blood. I put a pad on before bed, and then when I woke up, I noticed that my period had not continued. I'm very confused as to what is going on here. I've never had sex before in my life, I'm a virgin, so I don't think I could be pregnant? What do you think is going on here? Please help.

Hello there, First of all, How old are you? I am 45 and have had a lot of female problems over the years. I also have 2 daughters that have had problems. I might can help.

first of all virginity means nothing entering the vagina not even a finger so sorry to break it to you like that but its true=], and second the only way u could get pregnant is if any and I mean if ANY fluid from his penis got anywhere near your vaginal opening, even pre-*** can get you pregnant, I am young mom of one teenage boy and a preteen girl and 2 young girls, my kids ask me all kinds of stuff the older kids ask me all kinds of even se related stuff even though they are not sexually active but my son has had sex once already , yikes I am worried about him getting a girl pregnant but I have taught him well n he is smart. So I understand you having a lot of unanswered questions=], and I am so sorry you can't talk to your mom about this stuff, my kids tell me everything and I always listen and its like I am in best friend mode for them and I would be glad to do the same for you if you ever need someone smart kind and who has been through a lot in life and can answer almost any question you may have with intelligence and compassion then please feel free to email me anytime just remind me of who you are k, my email is [email protected]
anytime you have a question or just want someone to listen, I'm here=] may you be blessed in all you do and good luck with everything, and try your best to make all the right choices even though I know hun its hard =]
always sincere , chassy k