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    bellcnd Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 24, 2012, 03:14 PM
    Is my vigina loose?
    I had sex for the first time with a guy I've dated off-n-on for a long time. Do many people told me its going to hurt so bad so I expected it. It didn't hurt bad at all at first it did but I didn't bleed either. But he fingered me after and said he stuck four fingers in my vag. I don't know if that is true honostly and he said I was looser than a whore he had ed. I didn't think I was loose so to make sure I fingered myself a day after and I only could stick two fingers in. He has a nice size penis so I I don't know maybe I am.
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    Sep 24, 2012, 03:17 PM
    Lets say... unless you were born with a defect... babies can come out of there for any woman.

    Babies are a LOT bigger than a guys schong. Just saying.

    And personally... I'd have sent him packing...
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    Sep 24, 2012, 03:18 PM
    So you're dating and had sex with a guy that compared you to a whore... hmmmm... to me, that seems the bigger issue than whether your vigina may be loose.
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    Sep 24, 2012, 03:22 PM
    Well I almost believe I am. I ride horses and they say people who ride horses it can cause girls to have looser viginas?
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    Sep 24, 2012, 03:25 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bellcnd View Post
    Well I almost believe I am. I ride horses and they say people who ride horses it can cause girls to have looser viginas??
    How old are you? Because that sounds like something you would here on a Junior high school playground.

    And incidentally I dated a girl that had not only a horse most of her life... she also had a child and it WASN'T true.
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    Sep 24, 2012, 03:51 PM
    I am 17. But I am really serious about this question. Because if I really do have a loose vagina I need to start kegel excersizes
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    Sep 24, 2012, 03:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bellcnd View Post
    I am 17. But I am really serious about this question. Because if I really do have a loose vagina I need to start kegel excersizes
    You don't NEED to have a loose one to do the exercises... they can only help and not hurt...
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    Sep 24, 2012, 04:05 PM
    Sounds like you chose a looser douchebag to lose your virginity to.

    My first lover was 9 inches long, no small tomatoes. Even after that, and 2 kids, my husband, who is average sized, does not find me loose.

    I wouldn't let this guy get into your head. I'm sure you're perfectly normal, you just need to be a lot more picky about the guys you sleep with. This guy is a jerk.
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    Sep 24, 2012, 04:09 PM
    And with that said... the Tightest woman I ever dated (before I married someone else)... was a woman with 4 kids...

    And she didn't have any surgical help... dump this loser and find someone that has something approaching a clue... and common sense. Not to mention respect. This one is already a world class jerk in his minimal time on the planet...
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    Sep 24, 2012, 10:50 PM
    I don't know if this is true but I've heard if you stick one finger in and you can grasp it , its not loose if you can't feel your vaginal walls grasping your finger then you might be a bit loose. But just do your exercsizes and you'll be fine. And you should NEVER talk to him again that was too far and beyond rude.
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    Sep 24, 2012, 11:03 PM
    You need to chose sex partners a lot better, this guy was a jerk, Mature people do not tell others negative sexual things.

    And of course after enough time and foreplay he can get four fingers in,

    I am sorry, not being chosey with who you sleep with may make you one, but not what he was saying

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