Originally Posted by
Wondergirl
First, you need to educate yourself on how females are satisfied. Most of them don't have an orgasm from vaginal penetration.
Please go to your public library and check out some informative books that you can find at 612.6. Or do a good Google search on the internet.
Agreed.
On another note, try exploring your body. Find out what stimulation excites you and share what you've learned with him. Or better yet, set time aside to explore together. Don't just go about business as usual, dedicate the time to trying different things.
Anxiety (concerns that you cannot have a orgasm in the method you prefer) will also kill the mood. Simply relax and enjoy the atmostphere. From hearing manys' experiences, most orgasms knock on your door when least expected. In other words, lose yourself in the moment don't get caught up being determined to achieve one.
It is very common for ladies to take longer time to climax than men. Educate him also, so he understands and is not impatient (that's rude) with you.