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    Aug 12, 2008, 03:41 PM
    How Does a Girl have an Orgasm?
    :( I'm embarrassed to be asking this but I don't want to admit to my boyfriend that I'm not exactly sure how to have an orgasm while having sex. I know you can have one by rubbing on your , but is that the only way?
    I've seen it in movies or on Sex in the City, but when it get down to it, it doesn't add up, nothing happens. Is there something I need to be doing, or something I missed?
    The only thing that seems to happen while I've had sex is there is a point where ill get really wet and I figured that was just it, but I'm not sure because I don't really feel anything when that happens.. is that an orgasm or am I missing some magical key here? :confused:
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    Aug 12, 2008, 03:45 PM
    May I ask how old you are?

    Some women can't reach climax through intercourse.

    It takes a lot of trust and relaxation for me to reach climax with my partner... even with him not entering me.
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    Aug 13, 2008, 09:52 AM
    Sex is like anything you have to learn what is right for you.

    You both seem very young and think that its all about the actual act... it isn't.

    I suggest you find some books on foreplay and how it can affect both of you, learn about your body, what turns you on, where your sensitive bits are, how to encourage and learn together about what pleases each other, which is what you and your boyfriend are missing.

    Don't forget to practice safe sex... sexual deceases are not nice and unnecessary if you are protected.

    Hope this helps you .
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