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    babyblonde430 Posts: 21, Reputation: 1
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    May 28, 2007, 03:06 PM
    He cant feel my orgasm
    When I orgasm he can't feel it.. my boyfriend claims he could feel it with his ex's... does that mean that I'm not tight enough or is it that some women have more intense ones... hes says I'm not loose and I'm perfect... but I can't help but to NOt believe him when he tells me that because why would he be able to feel theirs and not mine?? I just want to be better than the other girls were... ya know what I mean? He can feel it with his fingers but not his penis. Is there something wrong with me?? :confused:
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    May 28, 2007, 05:51 PM
    Maybe he isn't big enough to feel it with you. I can see why he can feel it with his fingers because his fingers can feel the spasms. Why is the feeling so important to you and him. There is nothing wrong you my dear. There are a lot of other ways you both know you are having an orgasm!

    Don't you get the feeling he is putting you on in some way. Why take this seriously ?
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    May 28, 2007, 06:14 PM
    Well some women it would be impossible not to, since they would be jumping, yelling and jerking back and forth.

    And some have it a lot more quiet. So he can't feel it, it is yours not his.
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    May 28, 2007, 06:16 PM
    Don't worry if he can't feel them, as long as you are who cares if he feels it.
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