[ragirags]

Hmm this si strange. I want to keep this very simple, short and sweet.:cool:

I really care / like this girl and want to be with her for ever! (Marry her to be precise)

I have already said that I want to be with u, (not the marry part)!

Now the twist.. :confused: . She's been through a rough 3 year real ad has broken up for the past year... when I asked her, she says friends only... when I asked her, do you like it/ comfortable when I hug u. her response. "how can i... we are frinds, right"

Question, how do I change this to friends part to wife part. And she does care about me.. and is not cheating or anythign (simple, nice girl):p

How can I succeeed. I will truly , sincerely respect the person, matter of fact, thank him/her if someoen can help me.:)


Thanks.

Raul

[J_9]

How long have you been dating her?

[Lowtax4eva]

Also how old are you both?

[ragirags]

How long have you been dating her?

Not datign her. I asked her out, but she said only frinds. Known her for roughly 3 and half months only.. and I think she could be the one... because I grew really close to her.

The whole universe seeems to help me.. but they say, if you wnt soemthing really really bad. The whole universe (cosmic powers) will help u..


A quick note: my co-worker, she's very mature and in a way helping me too. She says to tell her that, "i know what i want, till u figure out what u want, dont' call me" will this help, can this be rephrased? Should I say this at all?

Thanks guys.


Raul

[mjl]

Your not dating her... so you want to go from friends to marriage?!

I think you should try dating her first before you consider proposing.

[J_9]

You can't propose to a woman you aren't dating. Heck you don't even know her that well yet, nor does she know you. You have only known each other 3 months.

she says to tell her that, "i know what i want, till u figure out what u want, dont' call me" will this help, can this be rephrased?

If you say that to her you will lose her in a heartbeat. Any man that said something like that to me after only knowing me 3 months, and not even dating, would have the door smack him on his behind on his way out and he'd never hear from me again.

[talaniman]

Slow down, dude, your moving way to fast as she told you she doesn't see you as date material, so marriage is a figment of your emotions. At least let her get to know you and get comfortable.