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RNM · Jul 14, 2008, 08:16 AM

Hey,
When I go out and I hook up with a cute guy whom I make out with the whole night, then the next day I think about him all the time and I hope he'll contact me after I've given my number and mail adresse but why do I keep thinking about this guy the next few days afterwards when I don't even know him? But we had a really nice time together just making out intense. How do I just get over the guy if he doesn't contact me and think hey it was a lot of fun and there will be more to come?

RNM · Jul 14, 2008, 08:20 AM

Hey,
Okay now I have this far out question, I met this guy at a party but I was just wondering is there any way to find a guy who I only know the name of and where he comes from but not knowing where he lives nor his number? How do I find him?

progunr · Jul 14, 2008, 10:26 AM

You might try something different for a change?

Like getting to know a guy, BEFORE you have any "intense makeout sessions".

While most guys would take advantage of a girl who's ready to slip them some tongue, without even knowing who they are, there are many who will be terrified to get any closer to you, just knowing how easily they were able to get you to make out with them.

N0help4u · Jul 14, 2008, 10:49 AM

He is thinking another easy chic and moving on. He has nothing to remember you by other than maybe you kissed better than the other girls
You are daydreaming fantasizing he is a dream come true maybe you will get to know him better.
Guess who has the advantage?

Like prognur said get to KNOW a guy first

Gem_22205 · Jul 14, 2008, 01:03 PM

Please forgive me if I am wrong. Just from reading a few of your previous post I am under the impression that you are a minor. If so, it would be reckless of me to offer any assistance which may possibly put you in harms way. If you have his name and location I am sure you can find him. Also, if this was a party of mutual friends someone from there may be able to direct you in the right direction.

Be careful.

starfirefly · Jul 14, 2008, 01:06 PM

Try Facebook

liz28 · Jul 14, 2008, 04:52 PM

Not to sound harsh but how do you make out with someone and not know anything about them, including their name. This is not good and an habit you want to break for the future.

If you gave him your number he might call but he might call wanting seconds, don't.Learn to control your impuluses because there would always be a guy that you like but you don't have to make out with them to show it and if they try it you simply say no and leave him alone. How old are you by the way.

Chery · Jul 14, 2008, 05:28 PM

You've gotten good advice from the other so far, I'm going to take it a little further if I may.

Be glad that they have not contacted you because they'd only come back for seconds and not respect an inch of you while grabbing for more, and they would probably pass your number on to others who are looking for an easy girl. Do you really want to be treated like this?

Growing up and wanting a perfect and steady boyfriend is not easy and you should never loose your self-respect just because you think it would be cool to be 'together' with someone so that everyone else can see that you are not alone.

When you go out to places where people meet just once a night to make out, you are looking in the wrong place for the 'right guy'. Try a bowling alley or mini-golf, or entertainment park with friends to meet others that stay out of one-night places.

Believe it or not, most single grown-ups that go out to discos and make out on the first meeting are not serious about a partner either, so don't get caught in that too early in life just to be disappointed.

Good luck in your new chapter in life dear.

It's never too late to change a dumb habit.

Fr_Chuck · Jul 14, 2008, 05:35 PM

From the guys side, easy girls are fun for the night, the nice girls are the ones you take home and go out with friends with.